Girls and Guys should understand:

Girls should understand:
1. If the first thing of a girl can let a man think about is sex, then she might is a failure.
2. To know a man is good or bad, first you have to see what kind of friend he is mixing with.
3. Buy some books to read instead of buying cosmetics, a girl with knowledge is always better that a woman with pretty face.
4. Idiot will fall in love with your external looks, only a real man fall in love with your inner heart.
5. Actually guy is not as good as you think, you can love him truly, but do not love him too deeply.
6. Do not believe a guy while he sweet talks. Guy always can become a great poet in front of girls even they are not in the real life.
7. Beside family, the only person in this world who worth you to love the most is yourself.
8. Love is not about the process of how he tackles you. It’s a must thing that he always treat you good.



Guys should understand:
1. Don’t simply have sex with a girl if you know yourself can’t provide her a better future.
2. Don’t take the relationship as a game while she is willing to be with you in your entire life and the so called “game” is just a temporarily fun.
3. Don’t find a girlfriend just because she has a good looking. Look at the inner part of her. The reason of you has a girlfriend is because you are looking for wife but not lover.
4. A successful man definitely needs a good woman to support him. And the meaning of “good” of the woman is not about the looks but her heart and knowledge.
5. Do not spending over time on flirting with a woman. Man is born to be conquer the world but not woman.
6. Men have lot of responsibilities in their life: the responsible towards their parents, the responsible towards their woman, and the responsible towards their future.
7. Do not play around a woman’s feeling, one day, you will pay back.
8. Choose your friends carefully because it can influence you and the good friend always guide you in the way of being good person.

A Lovely Sunday Homemade Dinner

Sunday to me is just a nothing... It's not a weekend for me to rest or relax and I need to

teach music from early in the morning until evening...

I decided to cook myself a lovely dinner to cheer myself up and release myself from the pressure of working....

After being busy in my kitchen for 2 hours...

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TADA!!!

This is the meal that I cooked myself just now. I can't even finish the burger sandwich yet...

Plus a glass of homemade gin and lemon cocktail....

Oh yeah~~~

I think I had cheered myself up successfully today~~~

I LOVE COOKING~~~

Can I just simply sing right now? la la la la la la la la la~~~~~~~~~~

=)

No More MS.YES

Since yesterday I dare to voice out my mind to someone and don’t even give a fuck who he is and what he wants. I think it's good to be Ms.NO instead of Ms.YES! Previously, I do not know how to reject people when they asked me for help and end up,I mess up my life by not saying the “NO” word.

Trying to be nice and good to people not everyone of them will appreciate it and show their gratitude towards you. Sigh~~~ I have to accept the truth of normal human being! Everyone was born to be selfish! At least a small little piece of selfishness will be found inside of them.

I know I have a very big trouble saying “no”. But sometimes I have to learn how to say this word to protect myself from those who try to get advantage from me. Things that I see after being friend with certain people, I found out he or she will treat you very good and nice while they need you. When they know you are no longer “useful” to them, they might just kick you out of their life.

For example, there’s a guy friend who was used to very close with me and said want to rape my family when he knew that I can’t offer my help to him anymore. I was shocked while I heard it! How fragile is our friendship… It can just simply spoiled by a few words. However, I don’t feel regret by saying the word “NO! I CAN’T HELP YOU!” and it helps me to see his personality very clearly after this case.

Smart people will learn their mistake from the others, normal people will learn from their own mistake. IDIOTS NEVER LEARN!!!!

To all the idiots, stop trying taking advantage from me... Friendship or relationship is not a business, you can't calculate the percentage of take and give from each other. And I had learnt to be firm when dealing with idiots!

Guess I will be more enjoying being Ms.NO rather than Ms.YES....

Learn to say 'no' to the good so you can say 'yes' to the best.

Learn to Love Myself More

To love myself is the beginning of a life-long romance. It’s such a good feeling when I start learning to “fall in love” with myself and I wanna tell you all… Self-love is the greatest of all flatterers. =)

In my past life, I’ve spent much time looking for the best and romantic partner but I realized that it was just meant to fill the emptiness inside my heart. It is a horrible way to live a life filled with constant worrying about the others or too fall in love with someone. So why not love yourself at first, and everything will falls into line. If you are not good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone.

Love and Desire are two different things.

Desire says,"I do not love myself so I must have this."

Desire comes from lacking something.

While love says-"I love myself and want to share that love with others."

When I don’t love myself, I’m basically telling the Universe that I’m unworthy or undeserving of any love. So, I decide to plant my own garden and decorate my own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring me flowers. I’m learning to love myself starts with making a conscious decision, an intention to become happy and lead a fulfilled life.

I DON'T LOVE MYSELF, I'M CRAZY ABOUT MYSELF. The way I treat myself sets the standard for others. I had spent so much time on loving someone but not myself… It sounds so ridiculous… I should love myself instead of abusing myself.

So, I start doing whatever I love to do, because I love myself! I start injecting some fun into my life. Life is meant to be an enjoyable. I don’t want to take life or myself too seriously. If I can think of life in this manner, I will automatically relax and quit worrying over things that do not matter.

I learn to fall in love with myself…

I learn to be kind and think positive all the time…

I learn to trust myself and be truthful to myself….

I learn to boost my self-confidence….

I learn to bring my dreams to my life…

I learn to see beauty in everything….

I learn to have fun and relax…

And I learn to enjoy my life…

My brain and my heart are telling me the same things nowadays, if I still don’t loving myself more… few years from now I will be more disappointed and regret by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.

ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS:

"It's not your job to like me - it's mine"

A street called Lebuh Armenian

It was a wonderful Saturday~~~

2 weeks ago, Danny and I were looking for the "Amelia" cafe after breakfast.

and finally, we reached a street called Lebuh Armenian, the street where Amelia cafe is located at...

It's just a short and small street but I felt so impressed...

We saw lots of antique and old stuff over there...

and this is one of the reason

WHY I LOVE PENANG....

Cheah Kongsi

Mahjong ^^ my favourite activity XD

Here's some history about Armenian Street that I read in internet:

Armenian Street is a street in the inner city of George Town and within the core zone of the Unesco World Heritage Site. It derives its name from a Armenian family that had its home at the junction of the now Armenian Street and Beach Street in the early part of the 19th century. The Armenians had arrived in Penang by way of India. By 1822, they had established their church, the Armenian Church of St Gregory, which was located when Bangunan Mayban Trust standing today. It was some eleven years older than the Armenian Church of St Gregory in Singapore. It was demolished around 1937, by which time most of the Armenians had packed up and left Penang.

In the earlier days, Armenian Street was known as Malay Lane. This is due to the presence of a Malay settlement, which can still be seen today with such monuments as the Acheen Street Mosque and Penang Islamic Museum in that vicinity.

Armenian Street developed more and more a Chinese appearance as Chinese traders moved into the area from the turn of the 20th century. Clan temples such as Cheah Kongsi,Yap Kongsi and Khoo Kongsi were established either on or within a stone's throw of Armenian Street. Traders and merchants of these clans helped to finance the mining of tin in the Larut district of Perak, which resulted in much prosperity flowing into the Armenian Street area from the 1860s right through to the early 20th century.

Unfortunately, Amelia cafe was closed due to the reason of renovation while we finally found it.

gotta find another place to have a drink...

With a bit disappointed that the Amelia cafe was closed... I found another cafe called "Edelwiess" =) and I did found some suprise over there...

Nice bar

Danny ^^

We ordered a cup of latte and brew coffee...

Danny taught me a way to taste latte... pour the sugar on top of the foam, so while you drink it, you might taste the sweetness on your lips but it wouldn't spoil the original taste of latte...

I'm still a beginner of tasting coffee so I hardly rate the coffee over there...

What I can say is OK la... not so bad but not that good... and the price is reasonable.... cheaper that Starbucks XP

the interior design of Edelwiess cafe

Me and Danny

Well, I think it's time to explore more places in Penang! I have been staying at Penang for 6 years and I just start learning to speak Hokkien and appreciate every single litlle place of Penang... Hope that it's not considering as late yet to me to do so =)