The Happy Smiles of My Family

My family is all I have in hard times. Although life and destiny has separate us apart into different places but there's something called love to hold us together.

It's been ages that my mom and grandma never been to Penang to visit me. I'm glad that finally they able to make it last week. Everyone temporarily let go their work and what we do is just to have fun together. To search good food around the island, to enjoy the precious moment with each other. There's nothing but only laughters and happiness when each time we spend time together.

Brought my mom and grandma to Straits Quay with my sis for a high tea.

My mom's smile is irreplaceable to me.

Grandma was having her good time in Penang.

Smiles from my sis <3

When things go wrong in life, just look around you to see who are always there for you and you will see that among everyone else your parents are always there. Family is members that love you and care for you, no matter what choices you make in your life even if they don't agree with the choices, they will always stand by you.

I love my family. Without them, there's no me. =)

It Doesn't Matter

There's definitely someone in your life will not care about your feeling...

IT DOESN'T MATTER...

Take a deep breath...

My life is in my hand...

and it belongs to me...

The most important is...

I DO CARE ABOUT MYSELF!

Happy Birthday To Myself

Instead of counting candles,

Or tallying the years,

Contemplate my blessing now,

as my birthday nears.

Think about the memories,

Passing years can never mar,

Experience great and small,

That have made me who I am.

I count blessing everyday,

Another year is a happy gift,

Here am I saying to myself,

"Happy Birthday!!! =)"

Die With No Regrets

After reading an article recommended by Danny which is named “The Top 5 Regrets people have on their deathbed” and it really makes me think a lot about my life.

The Top Five Regrets of The Dying:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my feelings.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

“People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.

This is surprisingly common one. Many did not realize until the end that happiness is a choice. They stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of changes had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content.

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.” ~ Bronnie Ware.

Sometimes, the realistic of life is really confusing almost everyone. We work hard to earn more money, to get a better car, better house, and better lifestyle. You thought you have everything you want and you wish, however, there’s something you will never realize until the day you are dying…

I’m trying to recall back the ‘me’ when was 17 years old, a girl with lot of dreams and passions towards her life. It is very important to try and honor at least some of my dreams along the way. I fought so hard to get myself a chance to study Fashion Design but I know I have never put more then 60% effort into it yet. Sometimes, I do feel shame on me. God gives me a pair of talented hands to draw, to sew and play piano but I never fully utilized it.

It's time to find back my dreams and do something for it. I don’t want to end up my life with full of regrets. I do remind myself, life is so short and it has no repeat. If there’s a single chance for me, I would try everything that I want in my life before I die. It’s always easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled when life is almost over due to the choices they had made or not made and I know that it’s always too late from the moment that we start losing our health.

"Life is a choice.

It is YOUR life.

Choose consciously.

Choose wisely.

Choose honestly.

Choose happiness."

My Resolution of 2012

Happy New Year to everyone...

Time passed so fast as it's already 2012. Reviewing on what I had done for myself on the previous year, so far so good. I managed to get myself a car, further improve myself in different sector beside fashion designing and drawing. Start letting myself getting involved into sales and customer service so that I can improve my communication and negotiate skill as I really very poor into it.

I know it's not the best yet to me as I really haven't try my 'super best' to achieve all the goals that I set for myself but yet... 2011 was still a wonderful year to me. I'm still a clumsy girl as every one knows but feeling grateful to those who had helped me a lots during 2011. Without them, my 2011 is not going to be so wonderful and amazing as I wish.

I have a Resolution of 2012 for myself before the new year starts, three things that I wish I can achieve within 2012:

1. Quit smoking!!!

2. Get myself a property!!!

3. Start promoting my own design creations!!!

I guess that's might be too much confidence but I think I am going to get what I want and nothing is going to stop me now! That's decided. I will try to fight whatever comes my way!

"When you arise in the morning, give thanks for the morning light, for your life and strength. Give thanks for your food, and the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies with yourself."

Tecumseh, Shawnee Chief

Lazy of Being Lazy

Feeling so damn lazy and strength-less these few days. But there's lots of things I want to do and complete but yet I still haven't start doing it... My designs and production has been pending for some time... My old car is waiting for me to send him to repair before selling it off... my new day job is coming soon... Too many things want to do but just that don't know which I should start first.

People get lost when they don't know what they want, and me is getting lost because too many things I want to do but I just got no idea which I want to do it first. At the end... when all things come together at the same time, and it makes me go crazy and LAZY!

Feeling lazy of being lazy but also feeling lazy of doing something right now in this moment. Sometimes our life might be filled up with dilemma. For people who are lucky enough, dream and work will come visit them together. For those who are not, you might be in a dilemma situation of don't know what you should choose. To follow your heart... or let the reality decide it for you...

I'm greedy! I want both! And the greediness lead me to no way where my dream and job are heading to the different direction and I'm get stuck in between of them. The only way I can solve the dilemma that I am facing now is.... SLEEP! Go to sleep and do not think about anything first before I ensure my mind is clear enough to make the decision for the next step or next plan. Or not the messiness of my schedule will be more serious and serious...

Well... Actually life doesn't make me feel tired and it's me myself who make my life to be tough sometimes. Never ever complain about life... Because we are the one who creating our life and life doesn't create us!

Dear Liz,

You are not lazy! You just rest before you get tired..... ><

haha... please allow me to use this as excuses of my laziness!

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Be Strong

Realize now that when your heart breaks you have to fight like hell to make sure you are still alive. Don't be afraid of being yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in.

There's a reason for everything, every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect of others is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly. Do your thing and never apologize for being you...

To those who hurt you before, show them you can live happily without them; to those who try to destroy you before, show them you able to stand strong and never surrender. I'm not stubborn but just never give up easily because I always believe there will be a day of success! Maybe it's just around the corner, who knows? To those who look down at you before, SHOW THEM! They are absolutely swallow minded and prove that! THEY ARE WRONG!

“There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout:
This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.
When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.”

~ Stacey Charter

It's Just That You Don't Know Me Well

People say I've changed. I used to be very aggressive to chase my dreams, always the one who walk in front among my friends. To know I want and to grab what I want for myself. And now... you can say my life style is totally different compare to few years ago.

To be frank, I don't really give a shit on how 'successful' I am as long as long as my life is not that suck until I can't afford to buy a meal. All I care about is am I really enjoying my 'everyday'! Life is just once and it has no repeat. It's crazy how fast everything is going. Year after year, it seems like it gets faster and faster. I honestly don't know how much I've changed but I know I miss it when I was younger, though.

And yes! I gotta admit myself is not as aggressive as last time. But yet, I never let go my dreams before, never! I'm just taking each step of mine slowly. To enjoy the journey before I reach the destination.

Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it. ~ Greg Anderson

It's always better to travel well than to arrive. We are not humans being on a spiritual journey, we are spirituals being on a human journey. I can run, walk or fly, but I just don't want lose sight of the reason for the journey or miss a chance to see rainbow on the way.

To my beloved friends, if anyone of you still wondering where the 'Old' Ong Lai Mun has gone to. I'm now telling you that I'm still the same old me. The only difference is I take thing more easily. Meanwhile, taking thing easily doesn't mean I don't have an aim in my life.

I'm proud to say it out I feel very happy of what I have right now in this moment. I live everyday meaningfully. I'm still the Ong Lai Mun who you used to know. If you feel strange, it's just that you don't know my well.

Forgetting other people's opinion about myself. I live for myself but not for the others. I understand that everyone has their different purpose of life. And I have mine, too! =)

You will never know where am I heading to until the day you see me reach the destination I wanted to go long long time ago.....

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Success Means...

Saw a status of my friend from facebook today: What's the defination of success?

I suddenly have some thoughts in my mind about the meaning of this word.

Success has no meaning of ending. The most important thing is we have an aim or dream. Success is when we take our first step towards it. Success is by learning each step that you take. Success is living your life, to embark on the journey. To gain knowledge, to know what is good and what is not, to understand the place, the experience, the taste, the flavor, the beauty of it all. It is the ability to steer yourself to the aim; the dream. And to realize that what we have gained each step along the way, right or wrong, and learning from the experience is a success in itself.

As we move along the journey we call life, to fully appreciate each step we take. To be able to take in the moment, to not just move along like a zombie each day to achieve that aim/dream and forget to learn each step, to take in the moment, to appreciate the day, the beauty. To forget to learn from the experience that we took, to forget to grow out of the mistakes we've done, to neglect the basic needs of life itself. To forget to live. That's what some people call empty success, as one forgot to learn each experience in life. Success to me, is to be able to learn each step of the way, to remember how to live life, to experience what is there to experience, along each careful little step we take, and not lose aim of our dreams and aim. Dreams and aim could always slot in along the way as a filler to the ultimate aim/dreams. As we achieve all these filler dreams we should not forget to continue as this is not it yet.

So some people get their big cars, big house, big this and that along the way. Some people stop at these and think that this is their ultimate dream/aim. That they keep chasing this same dream that it might eat up their minds and forget to live as what they wish to want at the beginning. Big car or big house is just a symbolization of your status in this society. It's an improvement of your living but not success.

Action is the foundational key to all success. ~ Pablo Picasso

Silent All Night Long

It’s not that surprise to see each of the couple will have argument when in relationships but most of my friends agree that argument in relationship might is something good for the couple as from the argument they have, they will understand and know each other more.

Conflicts in relationships can arise for the smallest of reasons, but there’s a simple way to avoid hurting a partner emotionally. It may be no one’s fault or both your faults. But we really need to understand that arguments in a relationship doesn’t make one of you win, but actually makes both of you lose in love.

And I believe that if I really want to know how to deal with arguments in a relationship, I need to look right into the problem. Each couple is unique, and each partner has their own way of arguing in a relationship. But the apologies come on its way, too.

I don’t like arguing with people, I used to choose to be silent at all time. It’s better not to say a single word rather than you spread out everything in your mind without thinking rationally. So… I’M SILENT RIGHT NOW! ………….

It’s easy to start an argument, but no one really likes the pain.

I'm Working But I'm Not

I had a pretty nice drinking session with the owner of B@92 yesterday. He taught me something new and I think it's good for me to apply into my life. he said this to me, 'I'm working but I'm not! Do you get what I mean? Think about it!"

I always like to chat with those people with positive mind set because they can 'brain wash' me with some new thoughts. And this is what I had learnt lately...

I'M WORKING BUT I'M NOT!

The only difference in between human is their mind set. I feel satisfy with what I have right now in this moment and that’s why I’m happy. It’s just the same concept and theory that we can apply it into our job as well. Job is not a game but when you approach it like a game, you’ll enjoy it more and you’re more likely to be successful at it.

Of course, when most people are working, they are working for money. So the work is done as a means to an end. Even when you do something as a means to an end, you can learn to become absorbed in the work and forget about where it is getting you while you’re doing it.

I simply learn to become more engrossed in my work. Learn to “get into it.” YEAH! Make myself to have the feeling of ‘I’m working but I’m not’…

I personally think everyone should learn to enjoy their work. If your job is stressful or boring, however, becoming absorbed is difficult. If what you’ve got is stress, that means the challenge of your job, either physically or psychologically, is greater than your skills. The answer is to find out what skill you need to improve and work on that. Increase your skill. That’s the answer to stress.

At the other end of the spectrum is boredom. If your job is boring, you’ll have to find a way to make the work more challenging, interesting, or creative. It may take you a lot of thinking to figure out how to do that, but keep at it and you can find a way.

I’m finding a way to become absorbed. I’ll enjoy my work more. Get so engrossed in my work that I forget about everything else, like where it’s getting me. It’ll get me a lot further that way.

It's Another New Journey

“Let your mind start a journey thru a strange new world. Leave all thoughts of the world you knew before. Let your soul take you where you long to be...Close your eyes let your spirit start to soar, and you'll live as you've never lived before.” ~ Erich Fromm

July is a good month to me, yea... it's gonna be my 'best' month of the year! Start working in a corporate company, learning and doing something new to me =) Ain't easy for me to work in a company because all these while I work as a freelancer. There's no words ofsuch as 'punch card' or 'office hour' in my life before.but it seems I can handle it pretty well and I kinda enjoy my new job nowadays.

Turning my life around can be very exciting and joyful and new ideas will appear any time anywhere. We have to learn to look at life in a positive life, see the blessing we have in our life.

I feel great when each day I wake up from my bed. Because I love my life now! Never feel that great before. Everything is just seems so good to me. My love, my work, my life, my friends... everything! God pampers me a lot this year and I will definitely appreciate what he gives me into my life. He has given my life such joy and new meaning.

It's time again for me to start another new chapter of journey and I decided to move on from my current role and try something new.

Meanwhile, I also start picking up dresses to do for my freelance fashion design job. I've read somewhere that nobody is great without work. It's nice to believe that if you find the field where you are naturally gifted, you will be great from day one.

I'm Never Looking Back

I’m having that feeling of that everything is good...

It’s not perfect but yet nothings perfect...

It’s good enough for me...

Everything is where it should be and there is nothing I would change...

I’m very happy right now…

And I’m never looking back…

时光已逝永不回~~~

往事只能回味~~~

新不了情(Liz's Piano Version)

歌曲：新不了情   

歌手：万芳

词:黄郁

曲:鲍比达

心若倦了

泪也干了 

这份深情难舍难了 

曾经拥有天荒地老 

已不见你暮暮与朝朝 

这一份情永远难了 

原来时还能再度拥抱 

爱你的人如何死守到老 

怎样面对一切我不知道 

回忆过去痛苦的相思忘不了 

为何你还来拨动我心跳 

爱你怎么能了今夜的你应该明了 

愿难了情难了

It's Never Be Too Late To Start Over

I had a great drinking session plus a great chat with my friends yesterday. A great chat will definitely make you grow a lot and see things widely. No doubt, as what my friend describes about me, I had lived my life in comfort zone in Penang for the past few years. I got so much talents but I never learn to fully utilize it. Recently, I recall back those years I have spent in Penang. It's just like a dream to me. Have I really achieve something? NOTHING!!! Shouldn't use the word of wasted but I just simply let my years passed by me without any great achievement.

Never ever think of having my life in KL before however... faith brings me here... Everything seems new to me, I know there's plenty of obstacles are waiting for me to go through it before I really get what I want. But I decided to take this challenge and I believe myself that I can handle it very well. Life does bring me down sometimes, but it never kills me but just make me grow stronger. Life is up and down provide windows of opportunity to determine my values and goals, I'm going to use all obstacles as stepping stone to built the life I want.

Nowadays, I always repeat asking myself, will it be too late for me to start over in another new place? No! I shouldn't let those negative thinking beats me down. One of the biggest mistakes I can make is to believe I'm too old. Too old for what? For living my life more fully? For daring to “be what you might have been”?

I don’t want to wake up one day in the future wondering what might have been if I had pursued my interest where it led. It’s important to learn how to follow the promptings of your heart, to listen to your heart’s wisdom. When your heart tells you it’s time to change, see it as a call and an opportunity to live your life more authentically. I wish it’s never too late to start over.

When you know what you want, you’re already halfway there. 25 years is not considered young but it's not old to a girl like me to start over and rebuild a life that what I want. What I need to do is... I have to believe myself I can do it!

My favorite quote of today : IT IS NEVER BE TOO LATE TO BE WHO YOU MIGHT HAVE BEEN ~ George Eliot.

Chances are always given out for those who has prepared well! And I has prepared and ready for my new goal of life! :-)

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Coffee咖啡(Liz's Piano Version)

歌曲：咖啡    歌手：张学友 

专辑：他在那里  

词:何启弘

曲:黄韵玲 

 太浓了吧否则怎会苦的说不出话 

每次都一个人在自问自答 

我们的爱到底还在吗 

已经淡了吧多放些糖也很难有变化 

不如喝完这杯就各自回家

 别坐在对面欣赏我的挣扎 

一场失败的爱情像个笑话 

热得时候心乱如麻 

冷了以后看见自己够傻

 人怎么会如此容易无法自拔 一场无味的爱情像个谎话 

甜的时候只相信它 苦了以后每一句都可怕 

人怎么会如此难以了无牵挂

North to South Trip@ "REUNION DINNER"

My family photo

Grandma and me

While every time I look at my dad and my grandma, I'm wondering there's still got how many year that I can spend my time with them together. The more I grow up, the lesser time i spend with them. We can't manage to see each other so that often since I start my new life in Penang after graduated. With my busy and tight schedule of working, guess I only visit them not more than 3 times a year. I feel so sorry to them while I'm writing this blog and it reminds me how I put myself at the most important place instead of them.

I skipped the Chinese New Year Reunion dinner of last year. Meanwhiles, my grandma never see her beloved granddaughter for 2 years. I just realize myself didn't even make her a call to send her my regards neither to let her know how's my life in Penang. I feel shame to myself as I'm such a useless granddaughter to her.

Finally, me and sister visited my grandma and attended the reunion dinner this year.

First thing that my grandma said to us when she saw us is, 'I can't believe you both come and visit me... I feel so happy to see you both again. I miss you both a lots...'

And I was speechless at that moment. Sorry grandma... I'm really sorry about it... I can't even find any excuse for myself to comfort her that why I never do my part well of being a granddaughter and visit her, not even once...

But now I know and understand... I will never let it happened again...

It doesn't need to wait until Chinese New Year then we only can fix our time out to meet our family. Reunion dinner is just a word without meaning to me if you never take your family important in your life. They raise you up since you are a baby who doesn't know to speak or walk. Without them, you are not gonna to have the chance to enjoy your life like now! It's never too late to start showing your caring to your family... and I'm now start planning the next trip back to Ipoh to visit my grandma and my dad! =)

"YOU DON'T CHOOSE YOUR FAMILY. THEY'RE GOD'S GIFT TO YOU." ~ Desmond Tutu

My grandma homemade dishes... well... she is not that good in cooking but I still like her food...

Traditional homemade HAINAN chili sauce

'Lou Sang' is a MUST during CNY

This is my beloved grandpa... he passed away before I born so I don't really know how he looks like...

Recalled the nice memories with my sis in this old house... The history of this house has more than 30 years....

North to South Trip @ "WHILE WE MEET TOGETHER"

It's always fun and great to catch up with my old lovely best friends during Chinese New Year. Eventhough we seldom meet each other or call each other and busy with our own life but there's something so called fate that bring us together and make our friendship last for 9 years.

While we were still young, we used to organise our reunion gathering at club or pub, order few buckets of beer, sing and dance together. We did enjoy, but we didn't really communicate so much as the environment is noisy for us to talk. To me, that's not really called reunion gathering but it's just a party night out.

Thanks god as we grow older and older, those 'too happening' place is no longer become the place we choose to hang out. In fact, we try our best to explore more nicer place in Ipoh to held our gathering but at the end, The Browns Cafe will always become the final destination where we go to have our drinks due to the reason that other places are full of people and out of seats during Chinese New Year.

Anyway, it's not a big deal for us to go back to the same old place every year to have our gathering as long as long as we meet each other. Even there's no expensive wine or delicious meal, there's always full of happiness and laugh in between us.

Time flies really fast but the gathering seems like bringing us back to the secondary school time as we were still wearing the little light blue school uniform. Sitting at the canteen there and bull shit around. We chit chat about life, about love, about sex, about dreams, about anything and everything. No secret hide from each other. Except Sook Yin... hehe... she still don't want to show us who's her boyfriend... and all of us are still having the question mark in our mind right now... hahaha...

It's a bit imperfect that Lee Yee, Lee Yng, Li Yin and Syiao Pey unable to show up tonight. But I believe that there's still a lot of chances to have a gathering like this... as long as we put each other in our heart and mind.
"A good friend is someone we can count on, as well as being so much more. A friend is someone with whom we can relax and just hang out, have fun and share our innermost thoughts, deep dark secrets, lofty and noble goals, or our hopes, joys, and fears. A good friend allows you a safe space to share your deepest thoughts and needs without worry of being judged, criticized or made to feel silly for feeling the way you do. Friends cheer each other on, laugh and cry together, and just plain commiserate and listen to each other. That's why friends are friends.... Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything."

I feel happy seeing all my friends finally stable down in their life. Found someone who really treat them good, doing things that they enjoy doing it. We see changes and improvement in each other while everytime we meet. We share our sadness with tears and happiness with laugh. Giving support and advise to each other towards our dreams. Ain't easy to maintain a friendship, but we feel proud that we made it!
Feeling good to spend my precious time with my friends tonight. Four simple words from me to my dearest old best friends, 'I LOVE YOU ALL...' :)

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By the way, the 2nd day of Chinese New Year, Amberly and Lee Yng finally made it to the gathering.

North to South Trip @ "MY 25TH BIRTHDAY"

Finally, me, my sis and Danny reached Johor~~~ and it's time to celebrate my birthday!!! I would like to dedicate myself a birthday song~~~ hehehe...

Happy birthday to me...

Happy birthday to me...

Happy birthday to myself...

Happy birthday to me... ^^

Me, my sis and my mom

Do, Re, Mi ><

While the day I getting older and older, family has become very very important to me... That's the reason why I insist to go down to Johor from Penang to celebrate my birthday even though it is really such a long distance.

The family. We were a strange little band of characters trudging through life sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. ~Erma Bombeck

And here's my birthday orange cheese cake, ordered by my lovely sis from her friend who had learnt to make cake in Switzerland... My dearest sis, thank you so much ya... ^^

I HAD A SIMPLE BUT WARM AND WONDERFUL

25TH BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION~~~

Idiot Never Learns

'Smart person learns from people's mistake; normal human learns from their own mistake; idiot never learns!!!'

I found out this sentence is very useful to me as it's not the first time I write it into my blog especially each time when I feel fed up toward somebody. These words will just automatically pop up in my mind. Yes... Idiot never learns. And why should I feel so fed up about their attitude?

No one is born to be perfect. Any man can make mistakes, but only an idiot persists in his or her error. Mistake makes people grow up and improve if we're willing to learn from the lesson. If we don't, the mistake will just stick with you forever in your life and it causes you never ever improve and success.

I feel sad to see those who never learn from their mistake. An advise from me to the so called 'idiot', either you are just lucky enough that every time there's someone with good heart helps you out of the mess that you make or you will just spend your entire life like that as a failure.

Think back of what I had done for the past. Obviously, I made a lot of mistakes and it almost mess up my life upside down. How I wish I can simply point my finger to someone and blame on them but I can't. I learn from the mistakes and I will never repeat it again. If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down.

Mistakes are a part of being human. Appreciate your mistakes for what they are, precious life lessons that can only be learned the hard way. We must be big enough to admit our mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, and strong enough to correct them.

I’m now laughing at my mistakes can lengthen my own life but at the same time, laughing at someone else's can shorten it. I firmly believe that you live and learn, and if you don't learn from past mistakes, then you need to be drug out and shot.

Learn from your mistakes and build on your successes. Sit down and think for a while… Have you ever learn from your previous mistakes? Do you see any improvement in yourself? If not, it’s time to take your action and correct them. Don’t be one of those idiots!!!