Learn to Love Myself More

To love myself is the beginning of a life-long romance. It’s such a good feeling when I start learning to “fall in love” with myself and I wanna tell you all… Self-love is the greatest of all flatterers. =)

In my past life, I’ve spent much time looking for the best and romantic partner but I realized that it was just meant to fill the emptiness inside my heart. It is a horrible way to live a life filled with constant worrying about the others or too fall in love with someone. So why not love yourself at first, and everything will falls into line. If you are not good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone.

Love and Desire are two different things.

Desire says,"I do not love myself so I must have this."

Desire comes from lacking something.

While love says-"I love myself and want to share that love with others."

When I don’t love myself, I’m basically telling the Universe that I’m unworthy or undeserving of any love. So, I decide to plant my own garden and decorate my own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring me flowers. I’m learning to love myself starts with making a conscious decision, an intention to become happy and lead a fulfilled life.

I DON'T LOVE MYSELF, I'M CRAZY ABOUT MYSELF. The way I treat myself sets the standard for others. I had spent so much time on loving someone but not myself… It sounds so ridiculous… I should love myself instead of abusing myself.

So, I start doing whatever I love to do, because I love myself! I start injecting some fun into my life. Life is meant to be an enjoyable. I don’t want to take life or myself too seriously. If I can think of life in this manner, I will automatically relax and quit worrying over things that do not matter.

I learn to fall in love with myself…

I learn to be kind and think positive all the time…

I learn to trust myself and be truthful to myself….

I learn to boost my self-confidence….

I learn to bring my dreams to my life…

I learn to see beauty in everything….

I learn to have fun and relax…

And I learn to enjoy my life…

My brain and my heart are telling me the same things nowadays, if I still don’t loving myself more… few years from now I will be more disappointed and regret by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.

ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS:

"It's not your job to like me - it's mine"