EASY vs DIFFICULT

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult to follow

Easy is keep the friendship with words
Difficult is to keep it with meanings

one RINGgit

Take a look inside your wallet,

How many one Ringgit note do you have?

What can you buy for one Ringgit?

You can buy bread when you feel hungry…

You can buy water when you feel thirsty…

You will never know how amazing it is about a ONE RINGGIT note

And I tell you now…

Someone bought my heart away with one RINGgit……….

After 85 Days…

Seems like time goes by so fast, I have been in my single life for 85 days and good to see myself still alive and I had survived. =p “When you break up, your whole identity is shattered. It's like death. Dennis Quaid” Haha…. Sounds so serious huh? But it’s kinda true. It’s tough to me. But I think I had learnt a lot of things for the past 2 months plus. I know I fell seriously this time, but I’m getting up right now!

Every night, before I sleep, I look outside from my window, and tell myself, “Life is still going on without anyone... Tomorrow is gonna be alright!”

Every morning, after waking up, I look at the sky and tell myself again, “It’s a new beginning of the day, everything is gonna be alright!”

Repeat and repeat…. Everyday…

Nothing is killing me, except the memories. I feel so sorry to say that I’m still feel sad actually. But I don’t want to force myself to forget anything that had happened to me. This is part of the story of my life. I know it sounds ridiculous, but my friend did tell me once, “When you feel sad or pain, just enjoy the feelings, because it’s part of the journey in your life”. Well, I’m enjoying the feeling of pain san sad right now. No pain, No gain. =) and I gain a lot… The harder times that I had gone through, I know it makes me a much stronger person.

Sometimes, I do still feel emo and drop my tears when the sad memories cross my mind. And I just realize. There’s still a scar inside me. It’s a deep scar to me. I got a feeling… This is going to take me a long time to heal myself… But it’s doesn’t matter! I believe there’s a day, the day when I can finally find my happiness and I know that sadness will definitely flies away on the wings of time. Time will heals me.

the current me ^^

I enjoy being who am I nowadays… Just like that will do… Live my own life without inflence by anyone, do my own thing without anyone. My life is all about me. =) It’s a new chapter of my life. And I know this is going to be the best chapter that I ever had…

A Letter to My Girlfriend

To my dearest girlfriend,

You are such a strong and tough girl after I had heard the story about you. I used to agree when people say “Love is blind”. Now, I have another different point of view towards this phrase. Love doesn’t make you blind. Love is the most powerful and still most unknown energy in the world. It can decrease your IQ and EQ; to make you doing something that you can’t even believe yourself you can do it.

My girlfriend, I know you. I know you actually are not that stupid. Sometimes you even know it’s good for you or not. It’s just that every woman was born with the heart of sympathy and emotional. You are seeking hard for someone to love and to be loved. However, thing can’t really goes well every time in your life. You smile because of someone, you cry because of someone. I feel your happiness, and I do feel your sadness and pain.

Ain’t easy to be a woman nowadays, you have to fight hard for your career, your life and your future. At the same time, I see you fighting hard to maintain your relationship. Sigh… I know how tired you are, and I know the reason why you do so, because you believe in love. You believe whenever you give out something, there’ll be someone who appreciates you.

“As long as you happy”, this is the words I always say to you. All these while, you try your best to pursuit your happiness. So, whatever you do, as long as you feel happy with it, then just go ahead. There’s nothing about right or wrong in a relationship. It’s about appreciation. Trust me, I understand you. The way you do so much thing for someone, is because you love him, and you want to be loved. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us. So, love him with no regret. Do things for him with no regret. At least you have done your part well and you try your best.

One of my friends said this to me when I cried in front of her, she said, “You are not a responsible person yet.” And I asked her why. She said, “You are the one who have the responsibility to protect your own happiness. No one can spoil your happiness and take it away from you. Your happiness only belongs to you but not to the others.” Yes, what she said and I think is right.

My dearest girlfriend, I know how hard you work on it. And I wish the god can see the efforts from you, too by giving you the happiness that you are looking for. But do always remind yourself, if one day, you fall down, don’t be sad. No pain, no gain. We are strong enough to face and handle the obstacles. Nobody can pull you down except yourself. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.

“To be brave is to love someone unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. To just give. That takes courage; because we don’t want to fall on our faces or leave ourselves open to hurt”~Madonna

Girlfriend, I just want to tell you that I WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU WHENEVER YOU NEED ME AND I WILL SUPPORT YOU WHATEVER DECISION YOU HAD MADE! ^^

Your sincerely,

LIZ ONG

The Purpose of Life

I’ve been asking myself the same question for so many times nowadays: What is the purpose of life?

Someone said is to enjoy and have fun, live your life meaningful and happiness. One of my friends said, the purpose of life is “To laugh often and much; To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; To appreciate beauty; To find the best in others; To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded”.

Most of the people in this city work hard for money and play hard to spend their money. To me, money is something but definitely it is not everything. Friends admire me that I can work three jobs at the same time. Yes. I earn money. And I feel happy and excited when I get salary by the end of every month. But… I begin to doubt that is this the life that I really want? I've been hurt numerous times in a relationship, things have not gone really well or right for me. Much obstacles and roadblocks that have presented itself and sometimes I'm just so lost. I always sacrifice myself just to please the others. I live because of the others. And now, I think it’s time to love myself more. =)

Life is the personal experience of being you, yourself. The only way to find out the purpose of life is to live it. Life is for living. Without the downs, we wouldn’t appreciate the highs. I feel that I’m lucky, for the past 24 years, there’re a lot of interesting stories had happened in my life. No matter it is happiness or sadness, it makes me grow up a lot and I learn to appreciate my life.

I start worrying about myself as I’m on my half way go to the age of 25, some people might think that it’s still considering young. To me, I had spent a quarter of century in this world. Start from now onwards, I tell myself, I will love myself more and more and more… to do whatever I want to do by following my heart… live my life meaningfully and happily… I want to live my life with no regrets before I die… life is short, and I will enjoy every single minute of it!!!

The purpose of life is a life of purpose. ~Robert Byrne