You are such a strong and tough girl after I had heard the story about you. I used to agree when people say “Love is blind”. Now, I have another different point of view towards this phrase. Love doesn’t make you blind. Love is the most powerful and still most unknown energy in the world. It can decrease your IQ and EQ; to make you doing something that you can’t even believe yourself you can do it.
My girlfriend, I know you. I know you actually are not that stupid. Sometimes you even know it’s good for you or not. It’s just that every woman was born with the heart of sympathy and emotional. You are seeking hard for someone to love and to be loved. However, thing can’t really goes well every time in your life. You smile because of someone, you cry because of someone. I feel your happiness, and I do feel your sadness and pain.
Ain’t easy to be a woman nowadays, you have to fight hard for your career, your life and your future. At the same time, I see you fighting hard to maintain your relationship. Sigh… I know how tired you are, and I know the reason why you do so, because you believe in love. You believe whenever you give out something, there’ll be someone who appreciates you.
“As long as you happy”, this is the words I always say to you. All these while, you try your best to pursuit your happiness. So, whatever you do, as long as you feel happy with it, then just go ahead. There’s nothing about right or wrong in a relationship. It’s about appreciation. Trust me, I understand you. The way you do so much thing for someone, is because you love him, and you want to be loved. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us. So, love him with no regret. Do things for him with no regret. At least you have done your part well and you try your best.
One of my friends said this to me when I cried in front of her, she said, “You are not a responsible person yet.” And I asked her why. She said, “You are the one who have the responsibility to protect your own happiness. No one can spoil your happiness and take it away from you. Your happiness only belongs to you but not to the others.” Yes, what she said and I think is right.
My dearest girlfriend, I know how hard you work on it. And I wish the god can see the efforts from you, too by giving you the happiness that you are looking for. But do always remind yourself, if one day, you fall down, don’t be sad. No pain, no gain. We are strong enough to face and handle the obstacles. Nobody can pull you down except yourself. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.
“To be brave is to love someone unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. To just give. That takes courage; because we don’t want to fall on our faces or leave ourselves open to hurt”~Madonna
Girlfriend, I just want to tell you that I WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU WHENEVER YOU NEED ME AND I WILL SUPPORT YOU WHATEVER DECISION YOU HAD MADE! ^^
Your sincerely,
LIZ ONG
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