I WANNA GET MY $$ BACK

A friend of mine asked if he could borrow money from me and he promised to pay me back within few months. I was trying to be a good friend and loaned him some cash to help ease his financial burdens. And the reason he gave me about borrowing the money is to do his personal stuff. But end up, I didn't seeing him settle his personal stuff by using that money in fact, I saw lots of his clubbing photos which is telling me he didn't even give a fuck about his “personal” stuff.

It’s okay with me to lend some money out when I got extra and my friend really need it. And now, he is avoiding me. Whenever I get a chance to talk to him regarding his loan, he would give me an excuse about not having enough money yet and promises to pay me back as soon as possible. I’ve been waiting and waiting… until I got no more patience…

I notice our friendship slowly turns sour and feelings get hurt. While the loan remains unpaid, the feelings of anger and resentment towards hi m begins to consume me.

I believe that many times in our life, we would be asked by a family member or a friend if they could borrow some money. The reasons may different but most of the time, it’s our intention to be a good friend that lend them a helping hand from us.

Sometimes, a friend may come along who isn't so hesitant about taking money, but hesitant when it comes to giving it back. All it takes is a firm reminder and a little patience!

AND I’M NOW LOSING MY PATIENCE ESPECIALLY IT’S ALREADY END OF THE YEAR AND I ALSO NEED THE MONEY FOR MY “PERSONAL” STUFF!

I’m figuring a way out on how to get my money back… Worst come to worst, I will just let this friendship ends. While the time I try to be a good friend but it seems like he is not treating me as a friends as I think. Whatever whatever whatever…. I really started losing my temper being too good to this guy. Guess my Christmas wish of this year is to GET MY MONEY BACK!!!!