The first ring that I ever received in my life from a man... is a piece of One ringgit fold into a ring shape and it's my first ring when he proposed to me and I said 'yes' to him without second consideration. The ring is not just simple paper folded ring yet it must always stay away from water and fire. But my mind keeps telling me this, a good marriage is not about how much is it of an engagement ring but it's all about how much a man loves you... I didn't put it on my finger but I keep it in my wallet and imagined that I'm wearing it... I'M ENGAGED AND I FOUND MY MATE!
The second ring from him to me is a cracked plastic ring. It used to be his ring when he's teenager but now he left it on the table and no longer wearing it. And there's a day while we both doing nothing on the bed during the weekend. He asked me to wear it if I do really wish to have an engagement ring because at that moment, he couldn't afford to buy me real diamond ring. And again, without thinking that much, I put the ring myself although it's not a gold ring neither silver ring, and it just makes me look so not fashionable at all. But still... I wear it and feel happy and sweet when each time look at it because it reminds me THERE'S A LOVELY GUY ALWAYS BE THERE FOR ME!
The third ring is the most expensive thing I had ever received. One day, we just had a walk in a shopping center. He saw a diamond from the display of a jewelry shop. He brought me into the shop and he started to choose a diamond. At the end, he decided to buy one for me to replace the cracked one that I wear all the time... I will never forget that moment! It's an unforgettable moment to me! "I DON'T CARE! NOW I REALLY BUY YOU A RING AND YOU DIE DIE MUST BE MY WIFE!" Not a sweet word but it melted my heart with sweetness and happiness...
And then, he wrote me this:
You accepted me from nothing (one Ringgit), shows me yourselves heart is pure. Yet you proudly say that you are mine and wear my cracked plastic ring, shows me you are sincere and accept me totally. I give you this ring today even though the diamond is flawed, I want you to know I'm not perfect either. I want you to have this ring because you deserve it and I love you totally and you asked me if anything is forever. Actually a diamond will last forever because it is so hard and it cannot decompose over time and I hope our live will be too forever.
This is the story of my first three rings from the same man. Simple... But unforgettable....
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