No More MS.YES

Since yesterday I dare to voice out my mind to someone and don’t even give a fuck who he is and what he wants. I think it's good to be Ms.NO instead of Ms.YES! Previously, I do not know how to reject people when they asked me for help and end up,I mess up my life by not saying the “NO” word.

Trying to be nice and good to people not everyone of them will appreciate it and show their gratitude towards you. Sigh~~~ I have to accept the truth of normal human being! Everyone was born to be selfish! At least a small little piece of selfishness will be found inside of them.

I know I have a very big trouble saying “no”. But sometimes I have to learn how to say this word to protect myself from those who try to get advantage from me. Things that I see after being friend with certain people, I found out he or she will treat you very good and nice while they need you. When they know you are no longer “useful” to them, they might just kick you out of their life.

For example, there’s a guy friend who was used to very close with me and said want to rape my family when he knew that I can’t offer my help to him anymore. I was shocked while I heard it! How fragile is our friendship… It can just simply spoiled by a few words. However, I don’t feel regret by saying the word “NO! I CAN’T HELP YOU!” and it helps me to see his personality very clearly after this case.

Smart people will learn their mistake from the others, normal people will learn from their own mistake. IDIOTS NEVER LEARN!!!!

To all the idiots, stop trying taking advantage from me... Friendship or relationship is not a business, you can't calculate the percentage of take and give from each other. And I had learnt to be firm when dealing with idiots!

Guess I will be more enjoying being Ms.NO rather than Ms.YES....

Learn to say 'no' to the good so you can say 'yes' to the best.